Friday, August 2, 2013

Fear

I just went through the scariest moment in my life thus far as a Mother. Worse than the Little Little's cleft repairs.

My Middle Little B was with her biological Father this week. I got up at 6:30 Wednesday morning to 20 missed calls from him. they were rushing my Middle to another hospital from the one he had taken her to. My sweet 7 year old baby had to have her appendix taken out.Let me tell ya, when someone tells you something like that you have and you have an over active imagination like I do, the 45 minutes it takes to get to the hospital are pure HELL!!!

It was inflamed. Not ruptured like he told me on the phone.



This is when they were getting ready to take her into the OR.



They removed it through her belly button



Day after surgery

Home at last where she belongs



Snuggle time with Daddy and a heating pad.


Hubby was there every second he could be. She is D's baby.  She is good now for the most part. Just super sore and her pain meds don't really work that great. But I am so thankful that she is home now and that they caught it in time.

the Sperm Donor thought she was going back to his house when she got released.... Ummm I think NOT. I threw a bitch fit, and she is where she needs to be. With her Mommy. She didn't want to go with him anyway.

His Mother threw a fit because I brought her home....

I find out today, that Middle's tummy had been hurting for 2 damn days before they took her to the E.R, and he didn't call to let me know he was taking her till they rushed her to another hospital. Yeah I'm a bit pissed off about that.

And on top of that, my eldest Little told me that her step-grandfather yelled at her for CRYING for wanting to go to the hospital with Middle. She cried herself to sleep that night worrying about her Sissy.......

But it's ok now. They are home. And Middle is loving all this extra attention she is getting.

But I do not wish something like this to happen to anyone's baby. It was horrendous

2 comments:

  1. Im glad all turned out ok. I think you did right bringing her HOME that is where she belongs WITH her MOMMY! When my Mom was 5 and My granddad was in the airforce they were stationed in london at the time. My mom's appendix Ruptured...For the entre week AFTER it had ruptured they were treating her for a kidney infection...By the time the QUEEN'S Dr got to my mom and found out what happened my mother had gang-green ALL in her abdomen, they had to take out ALOT of her intestins and replaced it with mesh she spent 15 days in teh hospital. the Queen's DR saved her life. She was told she would NEVER have kids. Period. EVER. My mom had to have 16 surgeries JUST to have a 4 month window AFTER recovery to get pregnant, She did get preg with me. There wwas some problems but Im alive and then unexpectedly she got pregnant yet again with my Little brother. They found out she was preg when she was doing the Pre op check up for having her hysterectomy. that surgery got put off till she had my brother...My brother was 8 months old before she had her hysterectomy...Right now she NEEDSa colostomy bag BUT she hasnt gotten it yet. She is in CONSTANT pain but at least she wont evenr ahve the woman issues I have. I need to have Mine out too but, they say Im too young...Im 30 and CANT have anymore kids (It would kill me AND the baby im lucky to have anna and We almost died 6 times while i was preg) I have to wait until im 35 before I can have Mine out. Every woman in my family has had THIER's out before they reached 27 yers old. i HATE how they change the rules etc JUST when I get to the point when I need something Blah. Glad she is OK though hugs.

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